Hump Day


Grown Up Troubles

Question – Do you know how to create a sexual connection so strong that your man is calling in sick to work and cancelling his plans so that he can spend more time with you? or…do you just hope deep down inside that he would.

Another question – are you able to turn your guy on so much that he brags to his friends about you?

And do you use different sex techniques and positions or do you use the same few repeatedly?

Not sure about you but I’d love to have a man who’s completely obsessed with me. I’m not a fan of jealousy but I do think it would feel nice to have a guy get a bit uptight if another guy was staring at me. A guy who loves to rip my clothes off as soon as we get home because the sexual tension gets so strong when we’re together.

I’d love to be in a relationship like that. And I think I’m like a lot of other women when I say that I really have no idea how to make all that happen. I don’t know how to build sexual tension to make my husband crave me and I don’t know what sexual techniques will light the passion in him to keep him hooked. I wish I could just look at him and turn him on with just my eyes. Like if we are out for supper somewhere, I’d love to be able to make him hard from across the table.

But I can’t do any of this. And being a plus size woman makes it all that much harder. Skimpy, revealing lingerie is not an option for me because nothing fits my body. And a lot of the various sex positions just aren’t doable because my tummy gets in the way.

There are tons of websites that have great information to help spice up your sex life but it all just repeats. It’s all the same stuff. It would be great if I could find things directed to bigger girls. If I only had the answers then I’d make a website myself!

But I don’t. Which is why I’m stuck in a place where nothing is spicy. And I love my spice! Definitely not a fan of anything bland. Time to get creative I guess and add some new things to my toybox 🍭

I Want You

I want you to moan. I want you to whisper in my ear, pretending like you were trying to hide the sound, like you’re trying to smother it but I still hear it.

I want your fingernails to dig into my skin and your lips to move faster and harder and deeper against mine.

I want your eyes roll back into your head and your body to push into mine until we are sticking to each other skin.

I want to feel the heat radiating from your skin.

I want to feel your muscles shake against my flesh.

I want you to beg and I want you to throw your head back stuttering for more.

I want your neck to be exposed for me to bite and your chest to be bare so it can be skin on skin and flesh on flesh.

I want my legs wrapped around you.

I want us to grind on each other so hard it makes your muscles clinch and your jaw drop and your face to tense up with pure ecstasy.

I want you.

In The Heat Of The Night 

When nights are hot and sticky 

And cotton clings in dripping hues

I sip the smell of feral sweat and

Stir the beast that chases off the blues 


You can have your cool encounters and 

Those warm-me winter cuddles but 

I’d rather pant in dripping smiles

Spent afloat upon your belly’s puddles 


Not for me are those sanitary nights

Of cool satin and fluffy pillow shams

Give me your heat

Your wet compliant company 

Then walk me out in time to catch my morning tram. 

Deep Love 

I thought your laugh was my favourite thing about you 

but then I made you moan and gasp and sigh

That was when you turned on my soul

Sexual High

Sometimes all it takes is one simple little twist to turn what would have played out the
as every other night of intimacy that my husband and I share.

One small purchase from today turned out to be the premise of a night filled with mad, passionate love making.

I will be sleeping with a smile on my face tonight.